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Helping Students in Uncertain Times |
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Dr. Diane Knight.
Last updated on July 15, 2007.
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For more information contact:
CAPS, MSN 2A2,
4400 University Drive, Fairfax, Virginia 22030-4444.
Call (703) 993-2380, fax (703) 993-2378,
or come by the office in Student Union I, Room 364
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Students at Mason are likely to have a variety of responses
to the uncertainty of terrorism and war. For some students this is an
unfamiliar situation. They have never had to deal with these conflicts
and may feel anxious and out-of-control. Other students may have directly
experienced war or terrorism here or in another part of the world. For
these students, the current threats may bring new feelings, as well
as, revive reactions to past experiences.
While we are all being affected in some way with these threats, many
students who have family and friends living overseas may find it difficult
to concentrate and manage school and other responsibilities. Other students,
with family and friends who have been called upon to participate in
a war, may also experience similar difficulties. In general, we can
expect that anxiety, as well as other feelings, will be higher for students,
even though they may not attribute it directly to the threat of war
or terrorism.
In this time, it is helpful to be observant of how students are doing.
Are you seeing changes from how they usually function. Perhaps they
are withdrawing from activities or friends, not attending classes or
work, not getting schoolwork done or performing at a lower level, having
difficulty in their relationships with peers. Students who have difficulties
on a more on-going basis may be particularly vulnerable to changes and
increased difficulty in functioning during these times.
Some
Steps That You Can Take When You Are Concerned About a Student
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Encourage the student to talk about how he/she is
handling responsibilities and other parts of his/her life. Give the
student support to have a variety of feelings and reactions.
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Help the student to identify strategies that have
been effective in the past for managing difficult and uncertain situations.
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Help the student to apply some brief relaxation skills
such as deep breathing, listening to a relaxation tape, taking a break
from routines and reducing known stressors.
- If you are concerned that the student is having a difficult time
carrying on with his/her life on a regular basis or that feelings of
helplessness, depression, anxiety or anger are getting in the way, encourage
the student to make an appointment at Counseling and Psychological Services for a confidential
consultation. Students can call for an appointment (703-993-2380) or
walk-in to SUBI, Room 364.
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Take some extra time to contact and talk with the
student.
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Strategize with the student to get to a better place.
Some strategies include talking with others, setting small goals for
getting work done, exercising, eating well, getting sufficient rest,
maintaining a routine and avoiding overexposure to anxiety-producing
media.
- If you are concerned for a student's ability to maintain safety for
him/herself or others, call Counseling and Psychological Services for a consultation
on how to proceed. If the CAPS is closed and you feel the
situation requires an immediate response, call University Police at
703-993-2810. For life-threatening emergencies call 911 on or off-campus.
Attend to Your Own Personal Needs
It would be easy to put significant time and
energy into helping students without taking time to assess how we are doing
personally. The possibility of war and terrorism will have an impact on
each of us. It is important to take some time to look at how we are doing
in handling these stresses. Are we recognizing our own limits and taking
steps to reduce cumulative stress and reenergize ourselves? Are there strategies
we recommend to students that we can use for ourselves?
For more information about CAPS services,
call 703-993-2380
or come by the Center in Student Union I, Room 364.